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My girl Zara - may she be happy in doggie heaven!
by: Petalyn on Sun, Jul 29 2007
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On the 30th June 2007 I sadly had to lay Zara to rest. I tried with all my resources and an overflowing heart to save my girl but over the last week of her life she deteriorated to such a degree it was unbearable to watch.

She had a stroke earlier in the week and this had left the left side of her face completely paralized. We continued to force feed her but had to reduce her medication of cortizone and antibiotics as she now had blood in her stools. I was so proud of her because she still got up and plodded around with me when i went to visit every night after work. I prayed that time was on my side.

On the thursday night, I lay on the kennel floor with her - my heart broke and I cried because for the first time I saw in her eyes that she was tired of fighting. Angela (the owner of the hydrotherapy clinic where Zara was convelesing [convalescing]), kindly told me that in her opinion Zara was holding out for me.

Friday I took Zara home She had gone from weighing 46kg to 32 kg in the 3 weeks she had been ill. I put her on the bed and held, stroked her and whispered loving words to her the whole night, wiping her eyes clear of the infection, wiping the discharge from her nose, breaking doggie biscuits into tiny pieces for her to nibble on, trying to find a position for her to get some sleep without being woken up every 5 minutes because she could not breath from the discharge in her nose, gave her water from a syringe to rehydrate her, carried her outside so that she could relieve herself, cleaning her after she messed herself with diahria [diarrhea] filled with clotted with blood.

Watching Zara suffer like this for 12 hours, I took her to my Vet again on Saturday morning. The prognosis was not good. She would need to be re-hospitalized as she was dehydrated, had developed a “chewing gum” symptom and had atrophy of the muscles. Zara was so weak she could hardly stand while she was being examined by the vet. When we tried to hold up her she yelped from pain. Zara was not improving, she was slowly dying.

“If it should be that I grow old and weak
and pain should keep my from my sleep
then you must do what must be done
for this, the last battle cant be won.

You will be sad - I understand
Dont let your grief then stray your hand.
For this day, more than the rest
your love and friendship stands to the test.

We’ve had so many happy years,
what is to come can hold no fears,
You’d not want me to suffer, so
when the time comes, please let me go.

Take me where my needs they’ll tend, only stay with me till the end
Hold me firm and speak to me
until my eyes can no longer see.

I know in time that you will see
it is a kindness you do to me.
Although my tail it’s last has waved
from pain and suffering, I will be saved.

Dont grieve that it should be you
who has to decide this thing to do.
We’ve been so close - we two through the years.
Dont let your heart hold any tears.”

The vet helped me carry Zara into the garden, she lay with her head on my lap as I quietly thanked her for the most wonderful 7 years together and that she had brought me so much happiness. And while i prayed that my late Mom was there to receive Zara into her care ….. Zara slowly went to sleep and is now no longer suffering.

Zara my girl … you are so loved!!


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